Lies that Make Us Try to Perform

In the latest episode of *Free for the Fruit* Jill Simons dives deep into some of the most insidious lies that many Christians grapple with. This thought-provoking episode builds on previous discussions, reminding us through this month’s truth band declaration that "God is not waiting for you to get better or be better before He loves you; He loves you now."

Jill uncovers how lies can infiltrate our minds and hearts, making us feel like we’re always falling short. She explains that a constant focus on our own efforts and virtue can sometimes mislead us into thinking that our worth is tied to our performance. By drawing an analogy with her own children, Jill eloquently demonstrates that love comes first—and it is not linked to our output or abilities.

Another significant lie Jill addresses is the notion that our sins are too great for God’s love and forgiveness. She powerfully argues against this by reminding us of the all-encompassing sacrifice of Jesus on the cross, which qualifies every one of us, regardless of our past mistakes. This message is both humbling and liberating, offering listeners the reassurance that no sin is too great to separate us from God’s love.

Jill also dismantles the myth that God is distant and we need to do something extraordinary to capture His attention. She stresses that God, unlike earthly parents who may be distant, is always present with us, and His love does not need to be earned.

If you’ve ever struggled with feelings of inadequacy or believed that you need to reach a certain moral bar before experiencing God’s love, this episode is a must-listen. Jill’s insights are a gentle yet firm reminder to reject these harmful lies and embrace the liberating truth of God’s unconditional love.

Ready to dive deeper? Listen to the full episode of *Free for the Fruit* below and start your journey towards a life free from the bonds of performance-based acceptance.